A few somewhat random thoughts on this wonderful
day...
Hans is a funny boy. The other day he kept following
me around and trying to help me. I asked him if he wanted to be like Momley.
His answer was not what I expected! He said that he wanted to be like me so
that he and his friend T could wear princess costumes! Although taken aback
slightly, I assured him that he doesn't have to be a girl to try on princess
costumes. At which point, he firmly stated that he did not want to be a girl! I
did not discuss it further as Hans seemed to have ended our conversation on
that firm note. A few days later, Craigley and I were talking about my friend A
and how her husband is a year younger than her. Hans remembered that
conversation and later declared that he didn't want to end up like A!! It was a
rather strong statement. He went on to add that he wanted to be stronger and
older than his wife!! Funny boy...he is only 6 and he has so much on his mind.
I don’t know what to expect from this child of mine on a daily basis and I don’t
know what the future holds for him?!
On a serious note, one of Hans' cousins does not want
to be a girl anymore. She is now a He - a transgender male. The parents sent an
informative email to all family members asking them to understand this
transition in their child's life, and to support their child appropriately. The
parents mostly expressed their relief that their child is finally happy.
I am so thankful we live in country where we can be
who we choose to be and not be alone. Thanks for family and friends, and their
understanding as well as their support.
Happy Thanksgiving Canada! Have a good one!
