Monday, 20 May 2019

2 days to 22 and the 11th!

Hans will be 11 on the 22nd! In September, he will be in middle school. Within the proverbial blink of an eye, he has become a "big boy"!

Hans is definitely at a better place in his life. Although he still does not quite have a friend at school, he has been engaged in various activities and been mostly positive.

What has he done since he turned 10?!

Hans was in House League Hockey for a third straight season. His confidence improved tremendously. He tried out for Select League and will be an alternate player next season. Craigley was concerned that the boy may be dejected by an offer to be an alternate player; however, Hans reacted with the following:

“Baby steps mom! And I am getting a jersey with my name on it!”

Ash 22 has arrived! 

Hans goes by Ash now. That's his chosen moniker for himself. Even Craigley has started using it.

What else has the boy done?!

He is completing his 7th year of Art lessons. He had this to say about Michaels the other day:

“I found my new Toys R Us!”

The boy is growing up in more ways than one. Recently, one of ASid's friends tried to enlighten the boy about the benefits of working hard. Hans casually brushed him off by saying that, “It’s OK! I am average!".

The boy is anything but average. He is acutely aware of the world around him. He knows his strengths and weaknesses. He is very accommodating of his loved ones. People take advantage of him and he is OK with that!

My brother remarked more than once that Hans reminds him of me. And I consider that a compliment to me!

For his birthday, Hans requested a dinner, a movie and a sleepover with Kay's son. Kay is my "new" friend from the paternal ancestral land. The boys had a fun time. Today, I am recovering from it all!

2 days from today, Hans will be 11. Can't wait to find out what he does this upcoming year! Meanwhile, my fond wish for Hans is to find a friend who will appreciate him and cherish him. Middle school is a crazy place and it would be wonderful to have a pal to help Hans navigate through it.
 

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