ASid showed up with half the number! There was
one girl and two boys, and none of them were from ASid's maternal ethnic
background. So I felt the need to introduce family members and friends, and
also ensure that ASid's friends understood the many rituals around food - how
to eat and what goes with what! At one point in time, ASid quietly snapped at
me. Apparently, he was explaining as well and I was simply repeating info that
was already shared. I got a bit defensive, but I let it go.
This morning, I received a text message from ASid. It
was an apology for "snapping a little"! I accepted his apology and
let him know that he demonstrated "an ability to reflect on his behaviour,
acknowledge a mistake and seek forgiveness". Then, I thanked him for his
note.
Life is short. The
little things matter!
This morning, another mom I know passed away. A few weeks ago, I mentioned her in a post. This was an amazing mother who had been
battling abdominal cancer for a few years. There were days I would run into her
on the way to school - I would be with Hans and she would be with her daughter
who is a couple of years younger than Hans. The last time I saw her was last
month. When I saw her, I knew that she didn't have much time. I am glad I had whatever
little time I had with her and I am glad I got to hug her one last time.
Fortunately, I got to do something small for her and
her daughter a few days later. I couldn't have done it all alone. I had people
help me and they were all glad to have contributed toward the small gesture. We
all got to seize a moment and run with it!
ASid and Hans are
almost always kind and considerate. Still, I don't ever want them to forget to
do the little things that make a huge difference! Here are three … make time to
call a friend, take time to apologize, and always appreciate the ones who care
and accept you for who you are!
