Three Free Meals

A while ago, I was at a restaurant for some take-out and saw a young man in the corner. He was simply standing there. It didn't seem like he was buying food. So, I asked the cashier if I could buy a meal for the young man. The cashier said that he would provide a meal for the young man at the end of the day. So, I asked the young man directly if he wanted a meal. He nodded affirmatively. I let him choose what he wanted and paid for it. He was very appreciative and started eating right away. When I got home, and narrated the incident to Hans, he exclaimed, "Mom, you saved his life!". I responded with, "I bought him one meal of his life.". That was what it was.

A few weeks later, I was getting out of a subway station and ran into a man. This man wondered if I could buy him a sandwich as he was hungry and he had just enough money to buy a bus ticket. I thought why not! I had $15, but the sandwich and a drink cost more. I ended up using my debit card. The man thanked me and as I was leaving, he said, "I need $15 for my bus ticket.". I was a little dismayed, and literally ran out of the shop. The man tried to follow, and I told him to not forget his drink. He ran back for his drink, and I escaped. That was a little scary.

Today, I was at the Court House for Jury Duty. At lunch, we were told we could leave the room and even the building. I decided to check out the cafeteria in the basement and stay within the building. As I got to the entrance to the cafe, a man came out and wondered if I could buy him a sandwich. He was one of the potential jurors and looked rather raggedy. I guess I have a need to buy food/sandwiches for random men! So, I bought him what he wanted - a cheeseburger. I had to endure some conversation while we waited for the burger to be made and for me to make the payment. The man said he would want to pay me back tomorrow. I was like it is okay as I do not want to be back tomorrow. This man was hoping to get selected as he is unemployed, and he would like the $40 they pay starting on the 11th day of Jury Duty.

I had time today and wanted to capture the three moments. They reflect the human condition in a heartbreaking way. So, will I ignore or walk away next time? I don't know.

 

Follow-up: The last random man got selected for the jury. It is a 2-week criminal trial, and he will get his $40 payday. I am happy for him. I requested to be excused, and I was! I am happy for me.