Wednesday, 27 November 2013

Mixed Heritage

Last year, ASid expressed an interest in learning a third language. Apparently, he thought about it a lot and chose to learn his father's heritage language. It was a surprising choice as Craigley does not speak his heritage language. It would have made sense to choose one of the 2 languages I speak other than English! However, ASid gently reminded me that where I came from, he could manage with English; where his dad's ancestors came from, they would respect his efforts to learn their language! I never argue with logic and I almost always support my children's choices. So, started the language lessons...

Craigley decided to take heritage language lessons as well. Secretly, I think he was pleased. First time, in his life, he wanted to connect with his child on a level that is deep and personal, and exclusive! ASid has been soaking it all in for the last 10-11 months. It has been great for the father-son pair to do homework together and to attend classes together. My brother, who has always been an involved uncle, also took the classes with them. His wife joined them for a while as well! I hope ASid realizes how lucky he is to be surrounded by such support.

I am also reminded of how lucky all of us are to live in Toronto and have the opportunity to experience our world this way.

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