Tuesday, 14 February 2017

The Forever Love

A while ago, I remarked to Craigley that I want the boys to find mates who would cook for them and take care of them. To which, Craigley responded, "Are you looking for mates or maids for your boys?"

Craigley has a knack for taking nothing seriously. What I meant was that I enjoy cooking for the boys and taking care of them; I was hoping that they find people who love them as much as I do.

Today is Valentine's Day. This morning, ASid remarked that he does not like VD as everyone seems so sad. And I agreed with him and said that the day is really a commercial "holiday" where no one gets the day off. The idea of love gets rubbed in everyone's faces till their faces are many shades of red! Some are hopefully happy at the end of the day.

I did tell ASid though that I love him. There are many kinds of love and we must cherish them all. The romantic kind will happen one of these days to my boy. It will be sweet and special. It could last forever or for a fleeting moment. I hope he has the time of his life when it does happen.

I fell in love for the first time when I was around 15; the same age as ASid is now. When one is that young, one is also naïve and idealistic. I truly believed that I had my one true love and we would last forever. Obviously, I did not and it did not. Heart got broken; however, love was found again and heart was repaired. 

I realized recently that we have this amazing ability to fall in love over and over again. My fond wish for the boys is to find that forever love; if not, I sincerely hope they enjoy the many loves in their lives. I hope they are forgiving when their hearts get broken. I hope they are appreciative when their hearts get mended. I hope they find their soul mates even if they can't be with them. I hope they get inspired to write poetry when in love. I hope they stand with and stand by the people they love. I hope they take risks, shed some tears and move on. I hope they love it all.

Happy Valentine's Day everyone! Tomorrow marks the 5th anniversary of the day "Momley Moments" was created. Thank you for all your love. You have kept me going and I hope to go on forever with such awesome support!
 

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